Nobody wants to talk about things like shame but wouldn’t it nice to find the antidote to shame? Wouldn’t it be refreshing to learn how to let shame go? Brené Brown’s TED Talk Listening to Shame is a great place to start:
I learned a lot from this talk:
- Vulnerability is not a weakness, it’s the birthplace of creativity, innovation and change.
- When it comes to shame, we have to walk through it and find our way around.
- The difference between guilt and shame. “I did something bad” vs. “I am bad.”
- Shame feels the same for men and women but it’s organized differently. Women feel the need to “do it all, do it perfectly and never let them see you sweat.” Men feel the need to “never be perceived as weak.”
- Empathy is the answer.
- Secrecy, silence, and judgment makes shame grow.
You can learn about Brene’s books and her powerful TED Talk on Vulnerability on #17 of All the Things.
Brené Brown was also a guest on my favorite podcast, Magic Lessons. You can check it out in #5 of All the Things.
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Marcie
Brene Brown’s talks have changed the way in which I look at myself and at other people. When I first heard her idea that vulnerability is a good thing I was shocked, me being a conscientious introvert. Now I don’t feel much shame anymore, but when I was younger I was caught up in it. Looking back I don’t know why, but thankfully Brene straightened out my thinking.
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And to think she was freaking out about how much she shared with the world. And we are so happy she did!
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Ugh. My phone never plays the videos for some reason, but am going to check out the last two on my laptop tonight!
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That’s frustrating. I wonder if I put the link in also, if that would work…
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I can’t seem to play anyone’s videos when I click on them – it’s really weird. If I go to YouTube, though, and search it, I can watch it there. But for some reason, just clicking on them in someone’s blog post doesn’t work. 🤷🏻♀️ I am sure it’s me. It’s always me.
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Ok I watched this. Thank you so much for introducing me to this incredible woman and this fabulous talk!
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I feel like your posts are out of order somehow. Did you cause that, too? Ha! On next Monday’s post, I put a link below the video in a regular link format so maybe if you see it, you can try it. Can you click other links? Like to other posts or websites?
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Ha! Probably! 🙄 I will definitely try it on Monday and let you know! Have a great weekend!
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Oh and yes, I have no problem clicking links to websites or posts, just videos are a problem.
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